Unfortunately, I've been unable to post to my blog the last couple weeks because my mom has been in town. As some of you know, she's been having quite a few medical problems, so she's in town so that I can take care of her for a few weeks. This has left me with very little extra time on my hands.
Not to fear though :0p. I'm trying to get my behind better organized, so I'm hoping to get back to blogging in the next few days. In particular, I want to get some updated pictures posted. :0)
So, thanks for bearing with me, and I will be back shortly.
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MIA, But Only for a Short Time:0)
Outdated Progress, But Progress None the Less
Here's some old progress pictures, four months in between. My hair has obviously grown quite a bit since this, but I'll be unable to upload new pictures until my camera issue is resolved. Please stay tooned. At any rate, the first picture was taken on December 31, 2011 and the second picture was taken April 15, 2012. Not quite a full 4 months in between. I truly believe there is a reason for my increased growth rate, which I will share in a later post, but this has been the best and most consistent my hair has been growing in a very long time. Yay!!
(Picture coming!)
December 31, 2011
(Picture coming!)
April 15, 2012
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The Effect of Mineral Oil, Sunflower Oil, and Coconut Oil on Prevention of Hair Damage: An Article
Most of this information has already been broken apart and paraphrased all over the Internet hundreds if not thousands of times. This is not new data. But have you ever wondered where people are getting this information from? Well, I do. Unfortunately, finding the research data to support some of the "Hair Science" statements found online can be tedious, if not impossible, unless you are willing to hit the library. "Ummm, tedious" *smh*.
So, here's just one article I found online, I'm sure there are others, but it took me a bit to find it, so I thought it might be helpful to others. Enjoy!
Effect of Mineral Oil, Sunflower Oil, and Coconut Oil on Prevention of Hair Damage
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Coconut Oil, Kerala, and Me
So, I have mentioned in the past that I actually do like coconut oil for my hair, however, I have a difficult time using oils because of how it makes my hair look. If you're not familiar with the effects of oil on my hair, you can read more about it in my "My Hair Hates Oils" post.
For now though, I'd like to talk about coconut oil, how I normally use it, and tell you a little about what I've been experimenting with for the last two weeks after reading this lovely comment on, indiaparenting.com.
"Name: Kavya Nair
City: Kerala
Comments: "I daily oils my hair with coconut oil. As an keralite , we go to bath after appyling oil to hair and we dont wash off the oil from the hair completely. This gives the advantage of non sticky hair. Also I apply oil to scalp in large quantity than the remaining sides of the hair. Applying to scalp spreads to each corner. I dont let go one day without oiling my hair. Sometimes on sunday I fully wash my hair without reamaining oil contents, but the other day I applies in large quantity and that too I dont use shampoo or soap but just poar warm water to avoid from removing oil contents from my hair. Again the next day till sunday I only applies to scalp and rubs gently. We should keep in mind that if dont want to oil in each corner of the scalp then just oil heavily to the upper part of the heads scalp, this will spread the oil contents to each and every corner. I have avery long hair as most of the keralites have and oiling the hair daily is in the malayalee tradition and I follow to grt extent.This has resulted to long thick hair..."
Ok, so if you are not familiar with the women of Kerala - and I wasn't until I started to do a bit more searching around - they are said have some of the most amazing hair. Thick, healthy, and long. Now, of course, as many of us know, genes play a definite role in all of this. And at first I was tempted to simply bypass my little two week experiment based solely upon this fact alone. I mean, hey, if they've just "got it like that", why bother, right?
But here's the thing, as I was searching around for more information, I started reading here and there about other people reportedly from the same Kerala area who were opting for the less traditional ways of caring for their hair. Because of their busy schedules, some would do what so many of us do - grab a bottle of commercial shampoo and conditioner, and keep it moving.
What some ladies were saying was that this "more modern" way of caring for their hair was really taking it's toll on their hair. That by doing it the "modern way" some were experiencing more hair loss, some were having slower hair growth, lack luster hair, more splits, on and on.
So what that said to me was, yes, genes do play a role, but it's obviously not everything(...of course, I knew this before...but this confirmed it). So, it was then that I thought, why not give it a go.
Here's what I did my first week in:
Day 1: Washed hair with Shikai Everyday Shampoo, then applied my Aussie Moist conditioner, then honey to my ends, then I applied coconut oil, placed hair in two braids to air dry.
Noticeable outcome: It took forever for my hair to dry. In fact, I had to lightly blow dry my hair that night so as not to sleep on wet hair. When my hair was finished drying it felt hard and dry. I was not too keen on this.
Day 2: Rinsed hair with water. Applied leave in, this time it was Giovanni Smooth as Silk conditioner, a little honey, placed in two braids to let air dry. Applied a layer of coconut oil after hair was dry.
Noticeable outcome: Hair felt coated, with that "crazy" frizz I've mentioned in previous posts. Again, hair took forever to dry. Had to lightly blow dry to avoid sleeping on wet hair. Really, really not liking this.
Day 3: Rinsed hair with water. This time applied Aubrey Organics White Camellia as leave in, little honey at the ends. Let air dry, applied a layer of coconut oil after hair was dry.
Noticeable outcome: Hair felt rough, ends were drying way faster than the roots and the rest of the hair. The ends of my hair were sticking together...it was getting more difficult to detangle without hearing those horrid "snapping" sounds. Hair felt oily, and I was afraid to rest my head on anything...it appeared the coconut oil was not being absorbed. Yikes! I was tempted to give up, but I continued.
Day 4: Rinsed hair with water. Applied Paul Mitchell The Conditioner as leave in this time. (I'm just rotating all my conditioners through, LOL)No honey this time. Let air dry, applied a layer of coconut oil after hair was dry.
Noticeable outcome: Hair feels a bit softer, but ends still drying faster than rest of hair. Ends still sticking together a bit more than I'm comfortable with.
Day 5: Rinsed hair with water. "Really" rinsed with water because I was getting so tired of the oily feeling in my hair.
Noticeable outcome: Hmmm, hair feels a bit softer today. Ends still drying faster than rest of hair, ends still a bit tangled, but not that big of a deal. Color of hair looks shinier, and a richer dark brown.
Day 6: Shampood with Shikai Everyday Shampoo. No conditioner, no leave in, just shampoo and applied coconut oil to damp hair.
Noticeable outcome: Hair dried much faster, all of my hair dried faster, not just my ends. Hair felt decently soft and fluffy. Hair is lying a bit flatter. "Crazy" frizz not as noticeable, but neither are my natural curls.
Day 7 thru Day 10: Rinsed hair with water, added nothing else but coconut oil to damp hair, let air dry.
Noticeable outcome: Hair has much less shrinkage...curls almost none existent. "Crazy" frizz is minimal...looks like I almost have a texturizer, hair is lying a bit straighter, .hair feels softer, ends are not sticking together.
Today: Rinsed with water, applied coconut oil to damp hair, let air dry.
Ok, so that was a lot, but I wanted to document what I did in case I stray away from this protocol, and then want to come back. Overall, it's been a nice experiment. The first week was not so good, but I believe that was because I was using a leave in.
To be honest, it was difficult for me to get my mind around the idea of not using a leave in. The problem is, it wasn't until I stopped using any leave ins and began only using coconut oil that I got to see the full effects of the coconut oil.
Now, that I've gotten into a bit of a routine, I think I will continue this another week and see where that takes me. So, Saturday will be my shampoo day, and then I'll start all over again.
There were several things I did not like about this experiment...most of which I mentioned in the "outcomes" for the first week.
Once I started using only coconut though things got much better, but I still disliked manipulating my hair every day. It worries me a little because I realize that wet hair is weaker than dry hair. My hope though is that the coconut oil is penetrating my hair shaft making it stronger, and hopefully this will prevent any damage. Being gentle is key though. How the Kerala people do it, is beyond me. I'm not sure if they wait until their hair is completely dry to manipulate it or if they work with it wet. I would love to know.
The nice thing about this experiment is that it made my scalp feel very cool and very moisturized. Plus my shedding has gone down exponentially.
All in all, I'd say if you have the extra time and patience give it a shot. Be very gentle, and remember, leave ins tend to buildup very quickly on your hair. It sounds like the Kerala only used coconut oil in their "head bath" routine, aside from their weekly shampoo, which i would guess consisted of Ayurvedic herbs and certainly not commercial brand shampoos. Though it was tough for me to do, it did make a nice difference in my hair when I finally let go of all the other products and just let the coconut oil do it's thing.
If you decide to try it...let me know!
Thanks for reading!
Ciao!!!
Sweet Almond Oil
I know that I have previously talked about my hair loathing oils, and this still holds true to this day.
If I apply pretty much any type of oil to my hair, my hair responds by frizzing to such an extent that my curls are no longer existent....I mean, at all.
But...
As my hair gets longer I am finding that I need oil if I want to maintain, what I would call, a barrier or slip between one strand of hair and another.
Why would I want to do this? Because if I don't, my hair ends will grab ahold of each other and hold on for dear life.
Why do I care? Because I'm trying to retain my length and this type of "grabbing" causes me to pull, tug, and yank my hair strands apart. Um, can you say "severe damage"? If these hairs insist on holding each other so tightly , you can imagine how much mayhem I can inflict if I choose to fiddle with my hair for even a minimal period of time.
Now in my case, not all oils are created equal. I enjoy using coconut oil, but given that my hair is already coarse by nature, that is , the diameter of each hair strand is very large, and on top of that, my hair has low porosity, which means the "scales" on each strand are lying very flat, coconut oil tends to make these factors more pronounced. Making my hair appear even more coarse and my porosity even lower.
Dry, straw city, ya'll.
In essence, on my hair, coconut oil mimics a protein treatment. My hair strands are already relatively strong, so adding more "strength", tends to make my hair act sort of like "plastic". Now, imagine for yourself, what happens to plastic if you try to bend it too much...yep, it will snap. Hence, the snap, crackle and popping I hear, if I I load up on coconut oil, or any other type of heavy protein, or protein mimicking oil. Because coconut tends to provoke this kind of response in my hair, I only apply it to my scalp just before I shampoo, along with a few other oils, which I will go into more in another post.
Ok, so enter my beloved, sweet almond oil.
I've tried several oils, EVOO(extra virgin olive oil), avocado oil, hemp oil, Shea butter...the list goes on. But no other oil helps me detangle like sweet almond oil. I am now adding it to everything - my deep treatments, my leave in, etc. In fact, it works so well for me that I can actually combine it with a "bit" of coconut oil - if I'm so inclined - and my ends still will not become too Velcro-y.
Score!!
I'm not a scientist, so I have no idea why this is, it just is:0).
I also like to use it as my prepoo. Makes my hair feel great, very happy. The only time my hair has not been happy is when I applied sweet almond oil on dry hair and left it sit on my dry hair for too long, as in a couple of days. In that case, I noticed that my hair felt very dry. My ends still did not velcro, thankfully, but it was obvious that my hair became parched.
Now, even with all this said...for whatever reason, I still contend that my hair just does not like oil. Sweet almond or otherwise, my hair will frizz like a mad hatter. But again, at is point I am trying to retain length, so after I wash my hair and apply the sweet almond oil, I will either braid or twist my hair and allow it to dry. Next day, I will remove my braids or twists and my hair is nicely maintained and ready for an updo.
Just to be clear, I have absolutely nothing against frizz, I have frizz even without oil, it's the nature of my hair type. But the type of frizz I get when I apply oil is different. It is completely out of character for my hair, and actually makes my hair appear very damaged. I know that this is not the way my hair is naturally, because when I shampoo away the oil, the true texture of my hair comes back. Nevertheless, as I said before, my ends seem to love each other, so a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. And this girl has got to do oil - so sweet almond oil is it:0).
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Honey Part Deux
I decided to talk about my experience with honey and touch on a few questions that inevidably come up whenever I mention honey to my friends and family.
First question:
...but isn't honey sticky?
Answer:
Yes, yes it is. But once you add water to it or a water based product, the sticky quality of honey seems to simply "melt" or mix right into the product. It no longer has that sticky, viscous property and tends to blend quite nicely. Don't believe me? Try it. Take a dab of honey and play with it on your hand. Touch it, feel the sticky nature of it. Now...add a few drops of water to it, rub the water into the honey...does it still feel sticky? Well, maybe it does if you have more honey on your hand than water, but if you try my suggestion of mixing 1 part honey to 4 parts water or a water based product, you should find that the stickiness has essentially dissolved - or rather evolved into something perhaps a bit sweeter;0).
Second question:
...but won't it attract bugs?
Answer:
Well technically, yes. It could potentially attract bugs, but no more so than any other of the lovely products on the market that include honey as an ingredient or for that matter any other sweet "smelling" ingredients. For example, Darcy's Botanical Avocado Honey Twisting Creme, Oyin's Handmade Honey Hemp Conditioner, Qhemet Biologics Olive and Honey Hydrating Balm, or MyHoneyChild Honey Hair Creme. I always have to smile when people ask me this question, because more often than not, if I asked them if they would be willing to try the above products, they would more than likely nod an unequivocal "yes!", without even really thinking twice about it. But if I suggest they try adding a little honey to their leave-in conditioner, the same people tend to cringe, look with skepticism, and then concede that adding honey on their own to their own leave-in is just perhaps, a little more than frightening.
But does honey really attract bugs? Well, I guess it would depend on where you are. Are you lying on an ant mound in the middle of summer at a picnic? In that case, yes, yes you probably will attract bugs. Are you sitting in a field, at dusk just after you've stirred up all the knats by running a kite? Then yes, yes it probably will attract bugs. But I suppose it would be no more so than the amount of bugs you would stir up after lathering up with a heavy layer of Victoria Secret's Pure Seduction, and then going out to play soccer in the depths of a cow field. Obviously, there's no honey involved in the Victoria Secrets product, but sweet things attract bugs...shoot, stinky things attract bugs, LOL.
In my experience, however, since I have not engaged in the aforementioned activities or at least not to the extent that I have described, I can not say with 100% certainty that if you put honey in your hair, or apply perfume to your skin, or if *ahem* the "natural" smell of you emanates from your pores that you won't attract bugs. Anything it possible. Personally, I've never put my head on an ant mound, but I have run a kite in a field and stirred up the knats. I've done this with honey in my hair and without. So I can tell you that the knat "attack" was equally irritating either way. I stirred them up...they were not happy...I irritated them...they irritated me, honey or no honey, I was in their domain...they took revenge... case closed. For the most part though, Just doing my daily routine, that is my daily tasks out and about, I can tell you quite earnestly that I have not attracted any bugs to my hair by applying honey as my leave-in. I have, on the other hand, been almost eaten alive while playing golf after lathering my legs with Vasoline Intensive Care Aloe Fresh. The mosquitos didn't care a whole lot about my TWA, LOL, but they sho was happy knawing on my freshly lotioned calves:0).
Third question: Isn't honey a humectant? Won't it dry my hair out?
Answer:
Well, it is possible that it might dry your hair out. I mean, anything is possible. For example, technically, cowashing is supposed to add more moisture to your hair and be a much healthier alternative to shampooing for curly hair. That is cowashing or low pooing or no pooing rather than cleaning my hair with products that contain SLS. But in my case, however, cowashing was a complete disaster. First off, I started shedding like a vitamin deficient Siberian Husky. In particular, I noticed my scalp feeling extremely sore and even noticed thinning along my hair line. NOT GOOD. Once I started shampooing again with an SLS product, my shedding slowed substantially and came into a more normal shed range (everyone sheds). Additionally, after I started shampooing, the soreness of my scalp became virtually none existent, and all of a sudden I had a lovely hallow of baby hairs spouting up all over my head to replace the large amount of hair I had lost due to shedding. Now, I could have continued to cowash and avoid SLS shampoo simply because everyone else seemed to think that cowashing is so fabulous. But thankfully, I didn't do that, I listened to my hair, and things turned out just fine. Lesson learned.
What does this mean as it pertains to honey? It means every head is different. My hair may love honey. Yours may not. Where honey allows my hair to stay moisturized for days, on your hair it might cause dryness , or frizz or any number of other things. There is always a chance it might not be a good fit for you. If you have been on your hair journey for even a short period of time, I'm sure by now it's become painfully clear that what works for one might not work for another. And especially if you tend to have "quirky" hair like mine - coarse, low porosity, and mega thick. To me, however, honey is such a natural and gentle alternative that it seems worth it to see if it's a good fit. Chances are you can try it once and know whether it's going to work for you. If it's a no go, then no harm done, but, oh Hunny OH, if it's a good fit. I think you're going to be truly thrilled.
Thanks for reading!
Ciao!!!
It's Honey, Hunny!
To say that I've been hiding under a rock when it comes to using honey in my hair would be a bit harsh - I mean, I've heard of it's wonders..I've even tried honey in products such as, Oyin Honey Hemp Conditioner and Qhemet Biologic's Olive and Honey Hydrating Balm, and I've enjoyed them. They are good products. But I guess in my own limited experience, I just assumed that the goodness that IS those products was due to the complete compilation of all the ingredients there in. And perhaps that's true. But oh Hunny oh, was I missing out on the beauty of the one primary ingredient in those products that has now become my new obsession. The one ingredient that can take an el cheapo product like a 99 cent bottle of VO5 conditioner and make it into a SHAZAM!!!
Cue the Olympics fanfare music please, and BAM!
Oh, isn't it lovely?
Yes, yes, I know...you're thinking, "But Onyx, it's just honey...I mean, come on, made by bugs, sticky, yellow, blah, blah, blah.. who hasn't seen or heard about honey for hair?? Ah lame...just saying" *insert eye roll here*.
And I would agree - the benefits of honey have been touted all over the Internet for ages. And if you are one of the spiritually aware ones who actually heard the calls and moved into the light, then this blog post isn't for you. You've already been enlightened by the divinity that is honey:0). But for those of you who are like me who kept the blinders on, either because the idea of placing something sticky on your head frightened the holy hemp seeds out of you, or simply because you are new to hair care - this post is for you.
I'm not going to go into a whole lot of scientific jargon about the chemical makeup of honey. You can look that up for yourself. I'm simply going to tell you how I have been using it and why I adore it. Ready?
I've been using it as a leave-in! I know, crazy huh? I've been taking a full tablespoon of honey and mixing it into my leave-in conditioner (which actually isn't a leave in, it's Aussie Moist, a rinse out conditioner, which also contains cones, but I digress). That's it. I shampoo my hair, add a little honey, sweet almond oil, and a splash of aloe vera juice to my Biolage Conditioning Balm, let that sit a few minutes, then rinse and then apply my honey and leave-in conditioner. I use a lot of leave in, because I've got a lot of hair. So for those of you who want an actual recipe, but don't like to slather on loads of leave-in, I would just say, make your portions, 1 part honey to 4 parts leave-in conditioner.
Goodness, this combination has made a difference in my hair. It is more supple, the texture is softer, and my moisture retention goes on for days. I have coarse hair with low porosity, so for those of you familiar with this type of hair, you know that suppleness, softness, and moisture retention are a pretty big deal.
Now, I won't try to convince you to try it, there is a "calling" and you have to hear that calling for yourself ;0). I would just "suggest" you maybe try it once, see what you think. Aren't you just a little bit curious?:0D
Ciao!!!
